THE COMPLETE SPANKER
TABLE OF CONTENTS :
Spanking & Me
"...eventually the truth began to seep in: I was one of
thousands, maybe tens or even hundreds of thousands, of people who
had erotic connections with the act of spanking or being spanked.
Suddenly, I began to see that I was virtually surrounded by
spanking fans....Lastly, I hope it goes without saying that
spanking, like a fine brandy, is too rich and intoxicating a treat
for children. I do not believe in spanking children, either as
traditional punishment, or, of course, erotically. Please keep
your...spanking...play between adults..."
Who Spanks ?
"IS spanking sex? The answer to that
question depends largely on the desires of the partners involved.
Why do we like Spanking ?
"...Let's face it: the sounds and
sensations and sights of spanking someone- the whimpers and moans
and cries, the writhing and wiggling and clenching, the skin
turning rosy and warm- are very, very sexy..."
Anatomy of a Spank
"The butt is a tough part of the body.
It's mostly fat and muscle, with most of its bones and major
nerves buried pretty deep."
Communication and Mood
"When you're playing with a new bottom
or with a new toy or technique, it can become important to
'calibrate' the sensations..."
Warmup
"Even the greediest masochist is
unlikely to have a good time if you start a scene with half a
dozen heavy strokes from The Cane of Hell."
Implements
"You often hear spanking toys ranked on
a spectrum ranging from 'sting' to 'thud'. Stingy toys are felt
mostly on the skin, with a sharp sensation; thuddy toys echo down
into deeper structures of muscle and even bone."
Positions
"For the purpose of categorization, I'm
going to break spanking positions into two categories: upright and
face down. Each category, as you'll see, has many
variations."
Afterwards
"Aftercare helps distinguish the
technically competent spankophile from the true artist- and it's
fun, too. Don't skimp on it."
Troubleshooting
"It's important to mention here that
most spanking aficionados spend many years happily spanking or
being spanked without encountering a single major problem- I don't
want to make it sound as though every spanking is a feat of
daredevil risk-taking. Being prepared for trouble is simply a way
of helping top and bottom alike to relax and enjoy
themselves."
Tricks, Tips & Fun Things to Try
"Getting bored with the same old
whackety-whack? Here are some ideas to spice up or fine-tune your
spanking play."
Conclusion
Appendix A: Finding Others
Appendix B: Cleaning Your Spanking Toys
Appendix C: Combining Bondage With Spanking
Appendix D:
Resource
Guide
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REVIEWS AND COMMENTS
:
"If spanking is your thing, I know of no more
thorough, thoroughly entertaining guide."
- Sybil Holiday, co-author, Consensual Sadomasochism: How to Talk
About It and How to Do It Safely
Fine
introduction to spanking,
June 13, 2000
The Compleat Spanker is a thin little book... 12 chapters in 70 pages, plus four appendixes. It is surprisingly thorough despite the small size, and actually has solid coverage of many striking implements beyond the traditional hand-spank.
This is a well-written book. The text is tight, precise, and easy to read. Green claims an interest in spanking to be very widespread, and attempts to write a book that's approachable even without an acceptance of broader SM. Although I'm too steeped in BDSM culture to say for sure, I think she has succeeded.
The main body of Compleat Spanker is well organized, structured in the order a scene would progress: communication, warm-up, implements, positions, and afterwards. Position illustrations are minimalistic, inoffensive line drawings that compliment the text nicely. Overall, the contents are generally basic. As an experienced spanker, I didn't gain much new information from the book. The chapter Tips, Tricks, and Fun Things to Try was an exception, and I did find some new tidbits there. It was, however, a very fast and entertaining read.
Who should read the book?
As implied above, an experienced spanker probably won't gain much beyond
entertainment. For less experienced folks interested in spanking better, I doubt
there is a better guide anywhere. Even if you don't want to have anything to do
with SM, this book won't offend.
saroftreve , from SF Bay Area
The author, Lady Green, who admits early in the book that she is actually Catherine A. Liszt of Greenery Press, along with Dossie Easton, has written two other highly informative and popular books aimed at those dabbling with B & D or entirely into the scene and wishing to refine their skills, The Topping Book and The Bottoming Book. This primer on spanking is written from the point of view of the dominant, though I believe a submissive might also learn from it's contents. It covers the release of endorphins and enkaphalins into the bloodstream, a description of the human rear anatomy, how a dom(me) warms up a spankee, the use of the hand, the paddle, straps, the birch, floggers, canes, and crops, positions the bottom may be put into, troubles that may crop up, how to end a scene and how to nurture after the fact. Then she gets into ideas for scenes and things you might do during a scene, how to clean implements, how to combine bondage with spanking, and how to find others in the scene.
" Really lives up to its title. Without titillation or coyness of any sort, Lady Green spells out every detail of spanking... infusing all of it with her conviction that butt-whacking is safe, fun and sexy. "
- Joseph W. Bean , author, Leathersex
i adore my spankings ......, November 7, 2001
i admit it, i love to
be spanked ... hard, soft, standing, kneeling, spread, stretched, suspended ...
whatever position, i adore my spankings. and i have so enjoyed this book for
educating both my Partner and i on the many erotic ways to spank a woman. W/we
share a deep satisfaction with every stroke, and the intimacy we share as His
hand lightly plays across my behind in public is deeply gratifying to both of us
Marie
, Oklahoma City, OK USA
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