Sensuous
spanking
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Spanking is a
much more personal and intimate than other forms of discipline. There is nothing
quite like the feel of your slave bent over your knee, bare ass arched upwards,
quivering with a combination of fear and anticipation. For the bottom, too, it
provides a very unique feeling - both physically and mentally.
One of the
factors that sets spanking apart from other forms of discipline is the
deliberate and sometimes ceremonial positioning of the participants. While some
spankings are haphazard, I prefer spankings that include the ritual of
positioning. Both the spankee and spanker adopt positions that facilitate and
enhance the spanking. These positions generally work to the advantage of the
spanker and the disadvantage of the spankee. The spanker enjoys the following
advantages from their position: Whether standing or sitting, the spanker is
positioned to be comfortable throughout the spanking. They are able to swing
their arm at a natural angle and able to sustain a lengthy spanking with ease
because of their position. Because they are able to wind up and freely swing
their arm at a natural angle, the spanker is able to apply swats to the intended
target with force.
While standing,
the spanker cannot only swing their arm but rotate their body to deliver maximum
energy to an anxiously awaiting, clenching derriere. The spankee's position is
designed to fully expose their bottom and the spanker's relative position is
designed to put that bottom at a convenient angle and height. Therefore, the
spanker is able to view, tweak, pat and spank it. Because the spanker is in the
position to easily spank the rear-end at the correct angle, it is much less
likely that a blow will fall too high or too low. The spanker's position gives
them the "upper hand" and allows them to easily control the spankee.
They sit or
stand higher than the spankee and are easily able to restrain and situate the
spankee. The spankee realizes the following effects from their position:
Except for the notable exception of their backside, I think it's important that
the spankee be relatively comfortable so they can focus on the sensations being
inflicted upon their posterior. Bending over and getting into position to get
your bottom blistered signals the beginning of the spanking and builds
anticipation.
A properly
positioned bottom will tend to be spanked harder and more completely on the
sensitive "sit spot." Being put over the knee is a childish,
humiliating posture. Having to "assume the position" is humiliating in
its submission and rubs in the fact that they are being spanked. A properly
positioned bottom is fully exposed. The cheeks are fully presented and split,
their undersides turned up. In the case of men, the anus and back of scrotum
show. Women are even more exposed, their rectums and vulvas fully visible.
Spanking positions place the centre of attention on the bottom of the person
being spanked, a fact not lost on said person. The bottom is emphasized by its
exposure and upturned position relative to the spanker.
Not only is the
bottom exposed and emphasized but the spankee feels they are willingly
"sticking it out" and presenting it for its punishment in the same way
that the condemned man must place his head on the chopping block. The spankee
knows their bottom cannot evade or escape the swats. Cooperatively getting into
position to be spanked is the primary act of submission in spanking.
Once positioned,
the spankee has relinquished control and may not easily regain it until the
spanking is done. They may have difficulty removing their rear from the line of
fire if they try.
When standing,
one can clench their cheeks together, mitigating the sting of a swat and the
exposure. When properly positioned, it is more difficult to clench cheeks and
the spanking will be applied to a relaxed, bouncing bottom.
Speaking from
the point of view of an admitted bottom fancier, there are few times that
someone looks more adorable and beautiful than when he or she is positioned to
be spanked. Not only is the bottom emphasized, but it is formed to a flattering
shape and sexily perked out. Spanking positions would be sexy even to people not
into spanking.
Specific
Positions
Following are
descriptions of various positions that I find erotic, their distinguishing
characteristics, tactics that can be used to enhance them, and precautions to
take. All descriptions assume a right-handed spanker.
Over
the lap
The spanker sits
with good posture in an armless chair, knees together. The person being spanked
must lay face down across the spanker's lap, with their head to the left and
their feet to the right. They must be over the lap far enough so their bottom is
conveniently located directly over the spanker's right thigh. In order to
preserve modesty, the person being spanked may be tempted to lie flat with their
head up and legs straight out behind; however, if they are concerned for their
modesty, they shouldn't have gotten themselves spanked in the first place. The
spankee's head and shoulders should be angled down and their knees tucked down
out of the way so that their bottom is well turned up. A palm pressed against
the back of the head and swats to the thighs are helpful in positioning the
spankee. Knees should be at least six inches apart and the lower back should be
"arched" or dipped to further turn up their rear. For a woman, this
will result in her vulva being fully exposed and presented. Depending on size,
toes will either be resting against the floor or hoisted off a few inches. The
full weight of the spankee should be resting on the lap. Hands can either be on
the floor or grasping the legs of the chair. If the right hand flies back during
spanking, it should be pinned to the lower back by the spanker's left hand.
Prior to starting to spank, the spanker should firmly grasp the spankee's waist
above the right hip with the left hand to prevent squirming off the lap. Then
the left elbow should be planted between the shoulder blades to keep the head
and shoulders from bobbing up. The spanker should raise their right knee
slightly, turning up the bottom further. By turning their upper body to the
right, the spanker can get a fuller swing and more comfortably apply a stronger
swat. By combining all of these tactics - the raised knee, the elbow in the
back, the hand in the small of the back - the spanker can effectively pin the
spankee down and spank the daylights out of them.
Over
the knee
Similar to
over-the-lap except the spankee is bent over the left knee with their legs
restrained by the spanker's right leg.
Hands
on ankles
This is the
classic school-style paddling position. The student must stand well clear of
obstacles with feet shoulder width apart. Leaving knees straight and back
straight, the student must bend over and grasp their ankles with both hands. The
spanker may want to observe the student's hands throughout the paddling to
ensure they do not leave the ankles and earn extra swats. The spanker stands
facing the left side of the student. They should stand far enough away so the
paddle barely overlaps past the right cheek. They should adjust fore and aft to
ensure that both cheeks are struck at the same time (assuming a paddle is being
used. Canes and straps warrant slightly forward positioning). It is not possible
to more fully expose and present a rear end than when in this position. When one
is told to bend over and grab their ankles, one is, in effect, being told,
"we intend to thoroughly paddle your bottom. So not only will you present
your rear-end but you will stretch and endeavour to stick it up and out as far
as you absolutely positively can. And throughout the paddling, you will continue
to strain to stick it out for the paddle." Since the angle between the legs
and the upper body is well under 90 degrees, this position spreads the cheeks
and exposes the rectum and genitals more than any other position.
This is a great
fantasy position, but I think it only works safely in reality for spankees with
flexible bodies (especially when a thick paddle is used). Inflexible people
can't reach their ankles without bending their knees. Non-fleshy butts get
pulled tightly across the pelvic bones and don't provide enough padding when a
heavy paddle is used.
Hands
on knees
is a safer, more
workable position than hands-on-ankles. The bottom is presented in a plumper,
more paddle-friendly shape but visually, the position is still very school-like.
Depending on the person, I think this position can be more visually appealing
because the back can be arched a bit which perks up the bottom. In fact, the
further up the legs the hands are placed, the more the spankee can arch their
back and stick out their rump. Again, feet should be shoulder width apart and
hand positioning enforced. Because the back can be arched and bottom upturned,
it should be required, both prior and during the paddling. A technique which
tends to arch the back correctly is to require the student to look forward at a
spot high on the wall. That way, they are required to pull their head up and
arch their back.
Over
the desk on tiptoes
Another
school-like position. The student must bend over a desk with nose or chest
pressed to the desk. Hands and arms should be placed on the desk over their head
to further arch the back. To further elevate their bottoms to be spanked, they
must raise up onto their toes. Penalty swats can be awarded for every incidence
of a heel touching the floor (hint: watch after the "last" swat before
the student is told they may relax).
Over
a barstool or horse
This is probably
the best position for paddling because the bottom is presented in a plump and
relaxed manner. The person to be punished must lay their full weight across the
stool, their feet hanging and hands grasping the legs of the stool at a level
such that there is a little support for their upper body. This is a relaxed,
comfortable position which works well for lengthy spankings.
Lying
on bed
Another
comfortable position for lengthy spankings and ensuing diversions. The spankee
must lay face-down on a bed. Their face should be pressed to the mattress while
their hips and bottom are elevated on pillows. Since pillows are compressible,
it may take three or four to achieve the proper elevation.
Kneeling
in chair
One of my favourite
positions for spankees with great butts because, properly executed, it presents
the rear in its most flattering light. The trick is in the execution. The
spankee must kneel in the seat of a padded chair (save those knees for later)
facing the back with the thighs vertical and upper body forward over the back.
Again, the spankee should be required to arch the back well. Two things conspire
to shape his or her bottom. First, the back of the chair prevents him or her
from bending so far as to preclude a good back arch. Second, just as high heels
shape calves fully by angling the foot to shorten and bulge the calf muscle,
kneeling with the calves at right angles to the thighs seems to allow the
buttocks to bulge fully.
Tactics
I've found the
following tactics can be used to enhance and focus on positioning:
Adjustment
& readjustment
I think it's
important to deliberately position and adjust the spankee prior to the first
swat. Emphasis should be placed on positioning and presenting the bottom fully.
Throughout the spanking, the spankee should be readjusted as their position
begins to fail.
Verbal
instruction
I think it's
best to require the spankee to wilfully maintain their own position without the
physical assistance of the spanker, especially in the case of stand-up paddlings.
Therefore, verbal communication is necessary throughout the spanking to
encourage the spankee to continue to assume the correct position.
Pickiness
One of the
disciplinary aspects of spanking is that no matter how perfect the spankee is
positioned, they can always improve, stick their bottom out a little further,
etc. The spanker should not feel guilty that their exacting demands regarding
position are perhaps a little too picky and unrealistic.
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