FEMALE TO MALE SPANKING
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" Nothing improves my disposition like a sore , tender bottom . "
.......... John
" Well , I've discovered a whole new range of pain receptors . "
............. fortunecity.com
Female to male spanking is another " mix " of spanking activity . It can be just a spanking , a prelude to sexual activity or used as discipline ( see SPENCER and SPANKOZ Plans ) . It may also happen as a " turnaround " ( SWITCH ) spanking .
( One might like to speculate
on what he has done , or not done ! )
Many
women are turned on by the site of a male buttocks ,
( that is one with well
developed gluteus maximus muscles ) and this may lead to a desire to get their
hands onto them . ( See SPANKED
MALE BOTTOMS . )
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Other women are more interested in " control " " issues " when spanking men ( see POWER EXCHANGE ) . Spanking is an interesting extension of the " Battle of the Sexes " .
Some men love to be spanked and pay for the privilege . There is a natural reticence amongst some women to spank , generally because of a fear of hurting the person . There may be other mental impediments ( which generally can be overcome with discussion and a little information , such as on the FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS Page .
The old saying of " Nothing ventured , nothing gained . " also applies to spanking . There is nothing wrong with bringing the subject up , obliquely if you like ( " You should have your bottom smacked for that ! " etc . ) or more directly with a smack or two . Remember that men let women get away with a lot more than in the reverse situation . A little spanking is a great way to get passion into a relationship and varying the AMBIANCE of the occasion will keep it there .
The physical problems presented by a difference in size may be overcome in a variety of ways , see HOW A SMALLER PERSON CAN SPANK A LARGER PERSON .
Even in a predominately male / female spanking relationship , the occasional reverse spanking will level the playing field and release tensions ( see SWITCHING ) .
So called " Hens Nights " may provide spanking opportunities :
A subtle way to tell him that he is in trouble .
Yes , it's hard
for men to find a lady to spank them, and even harder
to find a younger woman willing to do it . Most women your age have
the absurd notion that having a submissive facet to your personality
makes you " less than a man " , when that isn't the case at all . I
think it takes a pretty strong man to open up to a woman and admit
that he has this need .
Btw , just out of curiosity , have you been posting that you are
looking for a dom ? The reason I ask is that a Dom is a male , and a
Domme is a female . If you post in a personal ad that you are looking
for a Dom , you're going to get responses from men , and I get the
idea from your profile that you may have already had some
difficulties with that .
.......... Dolphin
Some hints for the first time .
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Most men prefer the Over The Knee Position , at least for the beginning .
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The majority of men prefer to have their clothing taken down by the woman .
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Start with your hand .
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The most popular implement is the hairbrush . The classic wood hairbrush is hard to come by now , but plastic cleaning / dusting brushes can be used .
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If necessary , change to a POSITION where there is more room to swing your arm .
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Use your voice to stay in control !
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Spank Democrats harder than Republicans ( only joking ) .
ONE MAN'S THOUGHTS
" Maybe this has been covered-- I do not know. No one would
believe I
get my bare wet ass paddled===always consenting and deserved---right out of the
shower and over the knee. It may happen two or three times in a year. No one
else knows/ Sometimes--not frequently I will be crying during and after getting
paddled. Its not from the pain of the paddling--although it hurts--
but a spanking will release something (?) in me. I have what would be considered
a `very good job--but a lot of responsibility goes with it--so maybe the
spanking releases a lot of job related tension---I do not know what it is as I
rarely cry outside of the context of my wife paddling me. She may spank
very hard-- but is very comforting about the crying. Do any other guys find this
happening to them ever? .................... If you wonder why I take a
bare butt paddling--My wife is a great wife--but has very high moral and
religious standards--I do not always live up to those standards-- If she is
offended my my behaviour I know I have a paddling coming--it works great for us
but is certainly not for everyone. Any thoughts on a grown man crying when
paddled would be much appreciated thank you . "
( Some of the above from Boys
Boarding School and danaspecht.com
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( Recently purchased for our MUSEUM
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Some female to male sites :
( Click on image for
video clip from
ENGLISH
MANSION . )
We try to keep sex out of the spanking equation for various reasons ( see FAQ Page ) . Likewise , the sex of the participants is not regarded as a major factor in our pages . Our visitors are interested in the following approximate " mixes " in spanking :
55 % Male / Female
30 % Female / Male
10 % Female / Female
5 % Male / Male
This ratio is replicated in our pages , where possible . ( Some things are difficult to come by , for example , Female / Male cartoons from the 1950 's . )
Many visitors are interested in more than one " mix " , e.g. " SWITCHES " who reverse roles .
Do you want to spank or be spanked ?
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Marie Antoinette
" If he were a .... horse (?) , I would whip him until he ejaculates . "
( On her problems in becoming pregnant by the French King , revealing am intuitive understanding of pain and sexual drive . )
....................... From ( We think ) Marie Antoinette : Tragic Queen
" One of the most reviled monarchs of all time , Marie Antoinette became empress of France at the age of 19 . She immediately alienated the nobility with her disregard for court etiquette , and offended the citizens with her incredible extravagance and absolute disregard of their situation . By August of 1792 the people had rebelled, and Marie and King Louis XVI were imprisoned . Within months they were beheaded . "
LECTURING
Hi !
Can you give me any advice or tips on "lecturing" before a spanking ?
I am female, in a hetero relationship, and i am the spanker (mostly).
From what i can gather a lot of men enjoy the "lecturing" part of the
punishment. I would like some advice because sometimes i just am not sure if i
am rambling on too much, and i would like to make it better for my partner.
Thanking you in advance
OUR REPLY
WHAT IS A PUNISHMENT SPANKING LIKE ?
A Punishment spanking may start with a period of waiting " go to the bedroom " , " I am going to spank you when I get home " etc . A verbal dressing down may be given , some can even make the recipient cry before the spanking occurs . A ritual method and positioning can be used , making the recipient wish that they would just get on with the spanking . There is no warm up and the spanking starts at full force , generally on the bare bottom . Tears , promises to be good , pleas to stop and marks should have no effect , you are spanked until the spanker is satisfied with the punishment . The spanking may not be with your consent . A period of bare bottom " Corner Time " can follow , if you touch or rub you are spanked again . Another lecture can be given . These spankings should be memorable , even years later . True Punishment spankings , as outlined here , are not very common in domestic settings . See Domestic Discipline in Relationships ( there are other pages on the site ) .
The " Dressing Down " referred to may be very cold ,
clinical and succinct, this is very effective if you can project your voice as
many teachers , mothers ( and other actors ) are able to . If you prefer
to use more words , try appearing to give the option of talking you out of the
spanking , which of course will not be successful . Always remain in control
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Remember to set the scene in other ways by pointing , exhibiting implements , moving a chair into position etc . Men are very visual , let him have a good look at your lap before he goes across it etc ( make a point of smoothing your clothing ) .
The preparation of clothing , either under direction or you can do it whilst he remains still . Use military style commands , ( " UP " , " DOWN " , " BEND OVER " , " ARCH YOUR BACK " etc ) , I have attached a short video clip to illustrate this point .
I would suggest trying variations of the verbal element of your spanking technique until you find the most suitable for both of you . I would keep a distinction between spankings for pleasure and discipline .
You may like to look at : http://spankoz.com/female_to_male_spanking.htm . If you do not mind , I will put the text of your question and this reply on the page .
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OUR REPLY
Thank you , look forward to hearing the result ( time to get the tape / cam recorder out <SMILE> ) . You might like to look at this :
Note :
Vocal commands should be clear , correct , and concise .
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CONCISE . Direct and to-the-point. Keep the voice command simple .
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CORRECT . Make sure the command being issued is correct ! This will keep any confusion to a minimum .
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CLEAR . The voice command must be given clearly and slowly . Enunciation and elocution are essential .
Further , all commands should be loud and without any hesitation . Commands must be loud enough to be heard in either quiet or noisy settings . Vocal commands with long pauses are poor form and imply that the spanker lacks confidence .
Develop your voice , KATHARINE HEPBURN is a good example to model your voice on . When giving voice commands , use your diaphragm and not the vocal cords. Otherwise, the vocal cords will become strained and cause the voice to become distorted . Practice makes perfect !
PRACTICE HERE :
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