SPANKING GLOSSARY
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( From : Full Moon Australia , spankoz does not necessarily endorse this glossary . )
ADULT SPANKING
For the purpose of this list , Adult Spanking shall be defined as spanking taking place between people who are at least age 18. ........ ( deleted , dealt with minors . )
AGREEMENT or CONTRACT SPANKING
An agreement is oral, and a contract is in writing.
For some adult spanking scenarios, it is a good idea for the participants to sit down and talk about the scenarios, under what circumstances spanking will take place, how the spanking will be delivered, number of swats, instruments to be used, position of the person to be spanked, clothing or bare bottom, etc. All participants then have an oral agreement on the terms, or have a signed written contract on the terms.
AMATEUR SPANKING
This is what most participants in the adult spanking scene engage in. It does not necessarily mean a participant is new to the scene or otherwise lacking experience. It simply means the participant is not a professional, that the participant is not engaging in spanking as a kind of profession or relating to a profession, [whether or not the professional charges money or does not charge any money for giving spankings or receiving spankings, or even teaching or demonstrating how to give a spanking].
ANAL STIMULATION SPANKING
This simply includes a variety of ways to stimulate the anus while giving a spanking, or before a spanking, or between spankings, or after a spanking. This might involve inserting a finger, or anal vibrator, or other anal instrument into the anus, as well as the use of a rectal thermometer. It might also include actually spanking the anus with a narrow spanking instrument. The inclusion of giving enemas is a separate subject under Enema Spanking and Purification Ritual Spanking. Also, anal sex with spanking is a separate subject included with Erotic Spanking.
Anal stimulation and anal sex are two different subjects, and an interest in anal stimulation does not mean the same person is also interested in anal sex. If a man likes anal stimulation, giving or receiving, then that does not automatically mean he is gay or bisexual, even if the anal stimulation is with another man instead of a woman. But two men engaging in anal sex would certainly mean that they are gay or at least bisexual. Women who like anal stimulation are not necessarily gay or bisexual.
Here is possible a new idea. We haven’t found this item on the market. Perhaps it can be manufactured and sold in the future, if it does not already exist. We would call it an Anal Vibrator Spanking Belt. It would include an anal vibrator attached perpendicularly to a thin elastic belt. The belt would be worn so that it would cross over the back of the bottom even with the anus. The belt would hold the anal vibrator in place, being inserted into the anus. The belt would help keep the anal vibrator from coming out of the anus, and the elasticity of the belt would allow in-out motion to pull the vibrator back into place after it has been forced in. While the vibrator is held in place, a spanking or paddling would be applied to the bottom, in such a way that each swat causes the vibrator to be forced deeper into the anus, and the elastic belt would then pull the vibrator back into place. The spanking causes a constant in-out-in-out motion of the anal vibrator for some wild pleasure sensations at the same time as the pain of the spanking. The mixture of pleasure and pain in this way can be mind-blowing. Of course, a lot of lube is needed to keep it safe, as well as the right design of anal vibrator to fit the individual.
ANGER MANAGEMENT THERAPY SPANKING
Spanking can be used as a kind of therapy to help manage anger. There are three different approaches to this.
The first approach has to do with the angry person being given a Punishment Spanking, or Discipline Spanking [as a scheduled series of Punishment Spankings], to help reduce and stop the anger.
The second approach has to do with the angry person being allowed to take his/her anger out on the bottom of a willing participant with a spanking, to release the anger through the giving of a spanking. This works best if the willing participant is not the cause of the anger of the person to give the spanking. The person giving the spanking should then feel some guilt for taking his/her anger out on an innocent person.
The third approach has to do with helping to prevent a dangerous kind domestic violence between couples, by using spanking as an alternative to hitting each other in the face or some other part of the body where serious harm or otherwise long term or permanent damage can be done. There must be an agreement or contract, that when one becomes so angry with the other, then any hitting will be limited to spanking the bottom.
ANNIVERSARY SPANKING
This is similar to Birthday Spanking, and simply involves spanking on the anniversary of something. There are many different kinds of anniversaries. One example is the date on which a spanking couple met and started engaging in spanking.
AVENGE SPANKING
This is slightly different from Revenge Spanking. In the scenario of Revenge Spanking, person A has been wrongfully spanked by Person B, innocence discovered after the spanking has already been given. Person B should have done a better job investigating the alleged misdeed of person A, or have granted person A the benefit of the doubt. But in this scenario, person A is not strong enough, or for some other reason is not able to give person B a Revenge Spanking. Therefore, person A appoints person C to give person B the spanking, which is then classified as an Avenge Spanking.
BARE BOTTOM SPANKING
This doesn’t require much explanation. Spanking should be given on the bare bottom for mainly four different reasons.
One, for health and safety: If you can’t see the bare bottom, then you can’t see the extent of damage being caused by the spanking, especially with certain spanking instruments. How much damage is visible may determine if the swats need to be harder or not, or delivered faster or not, as well as how many swats and how long the spanking should go on. Of course, the spanking can start out on pants such as blue jeans, and/or then on underpants, or may even be limited to spanking on pants or underpants, but then the pants or underpants should be lowered in order to examine the bare bottom for damage. Health and safety must be considered. You don’t ant to end up going to the hospital emergency room or otherwise seeing a doctor, or causing someone to need to do that, and end up having to explain how it happened, as well as possibly involving a police investigation into possible domestic violence. Most spanking partners will want to keep the damage minimal, like severe redness at the most, so that the recovery time will be less and they can engage in spanking more often. Using a cane, or other hard narrow instrument, does not require swats so hard that they draw blood, because that would be overkill, and there can be greater pain with lighter and more frequent swats with that kind of instrument applied to the bare bottom.
Two, for humiliation: A bare bottom spanking is more humiliating than a spanking delivered on a clothed bottom. This may include “corner time” during which the spanked bottom is on display.
Three, for greater sensitivity: Obviously, a bare bottom is going to be more sensitive to pain from a spanking, than a clothed bottom. However, there might be some exceptions depending on the kind of spanking instrument used. For example, a ping-pong paddle actually [for most people] hurts more [while causing less damage] if applied to a bottom covered only by thin underpants. Another exception is Wet Spanking, such as giving the spanking on the bottom of a wet swimsuit, which might be more stimulating [for some people], than a bare bottom.
Four, for full access: Some kinds of spanking, such as Erotic Spanking as one example, require full access, meaning access for sexual stimulation.
BEAR BOTTOM SPANKING
It is a kind of running joke, a pun, a play on words, between Bare Bottom Spanking and Bear Bottom Spanking. Even so, it may actually function as a combination of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking and Game Spanking or Sports Spanking. The joke has to do with going into the woods, finding a bear, sneaking up on it, giving it a swat on the bottom, and then trying to get away before it can swat you back! If you get away, you win. If the bear catches you, the bear wins, and has a fine meal! In reality, doing that with a real bear would be much too dangerous, although some people might be crazy enough to try it. For a safer option, it is better if a spanking partner takes a turn playing in the role of the bear, and then Bear Bottom Spanking can become a really fun activity… especially if the bear ends up having that fine meal, leading into Erotic Spanking!
BEGINNER SPANKING
Beginner Spanking means you have no significant experience with giving a spanking and/or receiving a spanking.
There is a proper, safe way to give a spanking. For example, the angle of the swats is important. Picture the person being spanked with head to your left and feet to your right. A downward motion, which is on line that is perpendicular [at a right angle] to the surface of the bottom is acceptable, or otherwise vertical to the horizontal bottom. Consider that perpendicular line to be the division between the right kind and the wrong kind of spanking. Aiming for the same point, if the downward motion comes down from left of the line [from the head] then it is the wrong way. If it is right of that line, it is good. If it is right of that line, with a kind of upward hook, then it is best. Easier to demonstrate than to describe it in writing like this.
Also, don’t keep spanking the exact same spot over and over. Move your hand or spanking instrument around on the surface of the bottom to spread out the swats, like in a tic-tac-toe grid pattern creating nine spanking points, three on the left bun, three on the right bun, and three along the crack of the bottom. Relating to the above paragraph, more attention can be given to the lower three squares, at the very bottom of the left bun and right bun and crack of the bottom, with a slight upward hook being best.
Just to play it safe, a beginner, who is giving a spanking, should only give the first spanking on a clothed bottom, blue jeans being best. And a first spanking should be given by hand, although it may be a gloved hand [such as wearing tight leather gloves]. The spanker giving the spanking should communicate with the spankee receiving the spanking. The spankee, even if he/she is a submissive, may give instructions to the spanker, such as lower, higher, further right, further left, center on crack of bottom, harder, not as hard, faster, slower, etc. And that should be done until the spankee is satisfied that the spanker can give a proper spanking. This may include the spanker feeling and massaging the bottom of the spankee, before the spanking begins, between sets of swats, and following the spanking.
If you don’t want to include anything sexual, but want to bare your bottom, then wearing a thong is recommended [and there are thongs made for men as well as for women].
BIRTHDAY SPANKING
A “traditional” Birthday Spanking is given on the birthday of the spankee [receiving the spanking], one swat for each year of age, plus one additional swat “two grow on.”
A “real” Birthday Spanking is given on the bare bottom. However, recommended, is the variation of giving a “practice” Birthday Spanking on a clothed bottom –tight blue jeans being best for either sex, or skirt up on tight panties for a woman.
Birthday Spankings are usually given by hand. Birthday Spankings should be a “fun” kind of spanking –fun for the spanker and fun for the spankee, so the Birthday Spanking should not be too severe. However, there may be a much more “serious” kind of Birthday Spanking, as a kind of Punishment Spanking, for all bad behavior during the past year. In that case, a spanking instrument, such as a ping-pong paddle, may be applied for all swats. Or, the final swat, in place of the one to grow on, can be given extra hard with an instrument, for the bad behavior of the past year or as a warning against bad behavior for the next year.
Another scenario may include a variation of Wet Spanking. This may relate to the wet diaper years. Simply use a spray bottle, filled with tap water, to spray the underpants or panties of the spankee, until soaking wet, and then give the Birthday Spanking on the wet underpants or wet panties. Recommended, in this case, say for example, the person being spanked has just turned age 24. First, give 24 swats, plus one to grow on, for a total of 25 swats, on blue jeans. Then, a second Birthday Spanking of 25 total swats given on underpants or panties. Then, a third Birthday Spanking of 25 total swats given on underpants or panties made soaking wet with the spray bottle. Finally, a fourth Birthday Spanking of 25 total swats given on the bare bottom. A grand total of 100 swats!
Birthday Spanking does not have to be limited to the birthday of the spankee. There may be a whole series of “practice” Birthday Spankings leading up to the actual Birthday Spanking on the birthday of the spankee. There may be an “advance” Birthday Spanking for the spanker to give the spankee if the spanker will not be available to give the spanking on the spankee’s birthday. Or, likewise, there may be a “late” Birthday Spanking. Further, if the “late” Birthday Spanking is the fault of the spankee, then the spanker may give additional swats for penalty for being late and interest based on how late the Birthday Spanking is given.
There may also be “reverse” Birthday Spanking, for which the person, whose birthday it is, gets to give all of the spankings! The people attending the birthday person’s party will submit their bottoms for spanking as a gift to the birthday person! A dominatrix is likely to appreciate this variation for her subs to properly submit to her on her birthday. The same would be true for a male dom and his subs on his birthday. Further, one dom may send another dom one or more subs for spanking as a birthday gift. Oh, hadn’t thought of that before? Hey, gift-wrapped with a nice bow might be a nice touch!
Birthday Spanking is no longer a simple, boring, “vanilla” activity!!!
BLINDFOLD SPANKING
This is a good variation for Game Spanking, or Group Spanking, or Party Spanking. Simply, the spankee is blindfolded, so that he/she can’t see when the next swat will be delivered, and can’t see which spanking instrument will be used next.
It can become a kind of Game Spanking, if the spankee has to guess which spanking instrument has just been used to deliver a swat. Some spanking instruments will be more obvious than others. To make it more difficult, get a number of ping-pong paddles, and put letters on them, like paddle A, paddle B, paddle C, etc. The spanker keeps giving swats until the spankee correctly guesses which letter is being applied.
Blindfold Spanking may include other kinds of surprises along the way. Use your imagination, but keep it reasonably safe, and try to keep it fun for both spankee and spanker. Making it somewhat frightening with anticipation and sounds can make more exciting as well as fun. For example, the spanker can tease the spankee with the sound of a narrow rod or whip swooshing through the air several times, before finally delivering a swat –which might be with some other instrument or even by hand. Also, instead of a swat, something else might be done, like massaging the bottom, or pinching the bottom, or hot wax dripped on the bottom, or rectal temperature taken, or enema given, or various sexual activities, or even the spanker kissing and licking the spankee’s bare bottom.
BONDAGE SPANKING
This simply means various forms of bondage are included with spanking. The spankee is tied up in some way, usually including hands and sometimes including feet. It could be as simple has handcuffing the spankee with hands behind back, and bent over for the spanking. Or it could include the spankee being tied to a post or furniture.
Bondage Spanking requires total submission and trust on the part of the spankee, because the spanker will be free to do whatever he/she wants, even with an advance agreement or contract. This can be an exciting step in the relationship between spanking partners who are switches, who will take turns with each other with giving and receiving spankings, keeping in mind that your turn will come and so what you do to me I will get to do to you.
BRUTAL SPANKING
This kind of spanking, usually delivered with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, can cause severe bruising, and likely long term but not permanent marking or scars on the bottom of most spankees.
BUSINESS SPANKING
This is simply using swats in place of money –in place of dollars. How many swats do you have in your spanking account? What are you going to buy with them? Or perhaps you are making a trade? Do you have a debt to pay off?
A common Business Spanking scenario is paying off a debt. Money has been barrowed, but the person who barrowed the money can’t pay it back. So the punishment may be one swat for each dollar owed, plus extra swats for interest, and more swats for penalty.
CONFESSION THERAPY SPANKING
Punishment Spanking is usually given when you get caught doing something wrong. Discipline Spanking is given when Punishment Spanking failed to get the desired results, and the spankee keeps doing the same wrong thing, so Discipline Spanking includes a scheduled series of separate spankings, like one hard spanking of 100 swats each day at the same time for a week. Confession Therapy Spanking is similar to Discipline Spanking, except that it does not involve “getting caught” doing something wrong. The spankee has confessed to doing something wrong. The person the spankee confesses to is not necessarily the spanker, but usually is. The variation is that the person confessed to might require the spankee to submit to someone who the spankee would prefer to not be spanked by, and so that might have to do with a humiliation factor as part of the punishment. Further, humiliation would likely include a significant amount of “corner time” while displaying a well-spanked red bottom, between separate spankings.
The spankee might be required to attend confession at the same time one each week, and confess any sins for the past week.
This is obviously similar to the confessional of Catholics and doing penance. Even so, it is not necessarily a religious or spiritual activity, although it may be. Separately, there is Spiritual Spanking to free the soul of guilty feelings. And separately, there is Purification Ritual Spanking, which is a series of Enema Spankings, but with a spiritual aspect of freeing the body and soul of guilt from sins.
CONFIDENTIAL SPANKING
This is simply a situation in which spanking partners agree to keep their spanking relationship confidential, as well as all spanking sessions private.
DANCE SPANKING
This involves the inclusion of spanking as part of a dance. Spanking is choreographed into the moves of dancing, and may occur at certain regular points in the music or song being danced to.
This is ideal for switches [spanking partners who give and receive] who will take turns giving swats to each other during the dance.
A variation, for doms and subs, is that the sub is required to dance in front of the dom, and the dom give swats to the sub at certain regular points in the music or song.
This is different from Music Spanking, which does not include any dancing, and only involves giving swats to the beat of the music.
DEMONSTRATION SPANKING
This simply involves a couple, spanking partners, demonstrating various kinds of spanking for other spanking partners, or groups, or individuals, who are likely new to the adult spanking scene, and are then likely to experiment with or try the demonstrated kinds of spanking.
DISCIPLINE SPANKING
Also known as Discipline Therapy Spanking.
Discipline Spanking is used when Punishment Spanking fails to get the desired result. Punishment Spanking is for when someone has been caught doing something wrong. Punishment Spanking is a single spanking, no matter how many swats are included in the single spanking. Discipline Spanking is a series of separately scheduled spankings. For example, six hard swats with a wood paddle on the bare bottom, at the same time each day, for a week. It may be considered a form of therapy.
DIZZY SPANKING
For this kind of spanking, the spankee is spun around on foot or in a chair that can spin around, until he/she is so dizzy he/she can barely stand. The spankee is then put across the lap of the spanker [who hopefully is not dizzy]. The spanker then gives the spankee a simple, fun, mild to moderate spanking, while the spankee is still recovering from the dizziness.
DOMINATION SPANKING
This is the kind of spanking a dom/top usually engages in, only giving spankings, but also with additional aspects of dominating the person being spanked, which usually includes strict oral commands, requiring the total submission of the spankee.
DUEL SPANKING
This is a contest between two people, to determine which can give the hardest swats, and which can receive the most swats. This is not a game, or a sport. This is a serious kind of spanking, which is not intended to be fun. The combatants take turns, and the toss of a coin may determine who gives the first swat. Eventually, one must become too tired to give any more swats, or more likely the other is in too much pain to take any further swats and concedes the duel.
An example is person A wins the coin toss and will give the first swat, one swat with a wood paddle [or other agreed upon spanking instrument, given to person B. Then person B gives a single swat with the wood paddle to person A. That completes the simple first round, during which both are wearing blue jeans. There may then be a new coin toss for the next round, and each following round, so that the same person does not always go first and it is left to chance. Each following round adds a swat, until one round includes six swats with the wood paddle. Round seven goes back to a single swat with the wood paddle, but is given on underpants, and then more swats are added to the next five rounds. Round thirteen goes back to a single swat with the wood paddle, but is given on the bare bottom, and then more swats are added to each round until one of the combatants concedes the duel.
ENDURANCE SPANKING
This mainly takes place when it is necessary to determine the limits of a spankee. How much can the spankee take, how many swats, how hard, how long can the spanking go on? Endurance Spanking determines that, and the moment the spankee’s limit has been determined then the spanking is stopped.
When someone new is trying out for staring in a spanking video, then the try out process may include an Endurance Spanking, if the video is going to show real spanking instead of faked spanking.
ENEMA SPANKING
This is simply the inclusion of a single water enema with spanking. An example is person A first gives person B a spanking of about six sets of six swats by hand on the bare bottom, with person B across the lap of person A. Then person A inserts the nozzle of the enema bag hose into the anus of person B, and proceeds to give person B the enema of about 12oz to 48oz of pure water. The nozzle is then removed, and person B must hold the water while person A gives another spanking of six sets of six swats by hand. Person B then gets off of the lap of person A, and is allowed to go to the toilet to release the enema water. After release and cleanup, person B returns to the lap of Person A for another spanking of six sets of six swats. No additional enemas are given, such as in Purification Ritual Spanking, but it is likely person B will need to go to the toilet to release more water if the first trip to the toilet didn’t get I all out. Each time person B returns from the toilet, there will be another spanking, until person B no longer needs to go to the toilet to release any more water from the single enema.
EROTIC SPANKING
The purpose of Erotic Spanking is to enhance sexual pleasure.
Pleasure may be described as being on a scale of positive one to positive ten. Pain may be described as being on a scale of negative one to negative ten. What we experience is the range, the difference between one point on the scale and another point on the scale. Just considering sexual pleasure, usually the most you can experience is ten, by going from zero to positive ten. The range can be increased by using a simple spanking by hand on the bare bottom as a kind of foreplay. The spanking takes the person from zero down to about negative five. The enhanced sexual pleasure is then the increased range from negative five to positive ten, a total of fifteen instead of just ten. But too much pain can cancel out the pleasure, and not enough pain will fail to enhance the pleasure. It is different for each person, and will not work for all people, so careful experimentation may be required to get the desired result. It is OK to alternate spankings with a variety of sexual activities, to enhance sexual pleasure, if the spankings always come first. If the sexual activity is first, then it will serve to enhance pain, making pain greater instead of making pleasure greater.
The simplest form of Erotic Spanking is for a couple to first take turns spanking each other, and then have straight sex.
An alternating alternative, for the man to enhance the sexual pleasure of the women, as another example of Erotic Spanking, is for the man to have the woman across his lap. He first spanks her bare bottom by hand, a light to moderate spanking. Then he uses the fingers of the same hand to reach down between her legs to massage her pussy, while using the thumb of the same hand to massage her anus. He continues to alternate spanking and massaging, until the massaging causes the woman to have a sexual climax.
Erotic Spanking is ideal for switches who like to take turns giving and receiving. But this can also work for a dom who wants to have his/her own sexual pleasure enhanced. He/she then orders the sub to give him/her a spanking, to then be followed by the dom’s choice of sexual activity. It is a rare scenario in which a sub is allowed or commanded to spank a dom.
EXERCISE WORKOUT SPANKING
This is a variation of Incentive Spanking, used to help a person reach a particular goal. This variation mainly involves some kind of exercise or workout.
It is usually about numbers, first determining where one is, and then the desired goal. For example, a person can only do ten pushups at the start. He/she wants to be able to do 20 pushups by the end of the first week. The difference is ten. For each of the ten he/she fails to do, there may be one swat with a wood paddle on the bare bottom.
Although exercise workout may be used to lose weight, Exercise Workout Spanking is not about the goal of losing weight, which is a different variation of Incentive Spanking. However, both variations may be used together for their separate goals.
EXHIBITION SPANKING
This involves professionals, of Professional Spanking, putting on an exhibition, a spanking show for an audience.
EXTREME SPANKING
This kind of spanking, usually delivered with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, can cause severe bruising, and possibly permanent marking or scars on the bottom of most spankees.
FANTASY ROLE-PLAYING SPANKING
There is no limit to the number of different kinds of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking. It is whatever the participants can dream up or imagine.
It certainly involves acting. It may include costumes and various props. Location can be an important aspect.
A popular variation, as an example, is spanking the naughty schoolgirl. A couple might have a room set up to look like a classroom or principal’s office. The man is dressed formally as a teacher or principal, and the woman is dressed in a schoolgirl uniform. She has done something wrong, and so he punishes her with a spanking by hand, and/or a paddling, or even a caning. If the couple likes taking turns, then the woman can play a Head Mistress of a school or even just a teacher, and the man then plays the role of a naughty schoolboy.
FUN SPANKING
This includes what may be classified as fun kinds of spanking, such as Birthday Spanking, Erotic Spanking, and Game Spanking, as three examples.
GAME SPANKING
This kind of spanking is intended to be a fun kind of spanking, but it can become a bit rough at times.
Game Spanking is simply the inclusion of spanking with a game.
A common variation of Game Spanking is as a variation of Strip Poker. This is obviously done with playing cards.
Aside from a Strip Poker variation, playing cards can me used in a simpler way. The players draw cards. High card spanks low card. The number on the high card is the number of swats to be given. Face cards may have a higher value, such as the Jack being 11, the Queen being 12, the King being 13, and the Ace being 14 instead of 1. If a Joker is used in the deck, then the Joker can serve a special purpose, such as some kind of special activity in addition to spanking. The suite of the card may be used to determine which spanking instrument will be used. For example, Hearts for spanking by hand, Spades for spanking with a ping-pong paddle, Clubs for spanking with a hairbrush, and Diamonds for spanking with a leather belt. It is ideal and fair if all players are dressed about the same, having on pants and underpants/panties. The first time a player is spanked, the spanking is on the pants such as blue jeans. The second time the same player is spanked, the spanking is on the underpants. The third time the same player is spanked, the spanking is on the bare bottom. The winner is the last player to be spanked on the bare bottom.
GET ACQUAINTED SPANKING
This does not mean a lack of experience, such as in Beginner Spanking. This simply means, you have a new spanking partner, or you are otherwise engaging in spanking with someone who you have never spanked before or been spanked by before.
It is recommended that you start out giving or receiving the spanking on a clothed bottom. A popular question is “What do I wear to my first spanking?” –with a new spanking partner. Blue jeans are best, especially tight blue jeans to help define or reveal the shape of the bottom to be spanked. What the spankee wears is usually more important than what the spanker wears, unless the spanker costume is a necessary part of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking. Also, a female spanker, who might want to engage in Erotic Spanking, will likely wear very revealing clothing, such as a miniskirt and a low-cut top. Even so, it is recommended, for Get Acquainted Spanking, she starts out by wearing something more conservative, such as casual blue jeans, at least for the first spanking, and then change into the more revealing outfit. The same applies to the spankee. If you don’t want to include anything sexual, but want to bare your bottom, then wearing a thong is recommended [and there are thongs made for men as well as for women].
Get Acquainted Spanking should include the spanker and spankee communicating with each other, no matter who is dom or sub or switch. It should include experimenting with how hard swats are given, how fast, and with favored spanking instruments after first engaging in spanking by hand until the spanker and spankee are comfortable and confident with each other.
GLADIATOR SPANKING
This is similar to Duel Spanking, which requires toughness, but requires more skill than Duel Spanking. Gladiator Spanking is a variation of Sports Spanking.
Gladiator Spanking requires a minimum of two participants as combatants. There may be three or more combatants, and there may be partners or teams working together against other partners or teams. There may be temporary alliances between individual gladiators.
Scoring is mainly based on the number of swats successfully delivered on the bottom of an opponent. However, with just two combatants facing off against each other, scoring swats might be difficult. Therefore, wrestling becomes an aspect of Gladiator Spanking, and it is then necessary for one opponent to successfully pin down or hold down another opponent, long enough to deliver six swats on the bottom of the pinned opponent. Any swats accidentally or deliberately delivered on any other part of the body will be counted as negative points to be subtracted as a penalty from the positive points, which means hitting an opponent anywhere other than the bottom is not allowed.
There may be several rounds. Spanking may be done by hand or gloved hand, and various spanking instruments may be used in different rounds. Also, rounds may progress from fully clothed to completely naked. However, it is recommended, for this kind of spanking, there be a minimum clothing protection of wearing thongs [for men as well as women but especially for men] as a simple matter of safety.
GROUP SPANKING
This is simply a group of people, who meet at a mutually convenient place and time, for the purpose of engaging in one or more kinds of spanking.
HALLOWEEN SPANKING
This involves spanking on Halloween, and is ideal as a variation of Game Spanking, Party Spanking, and Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking with costumes.
HARD SPANKING
This kind of spanking, whether delivered by hand or with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, causes severe redness but no bruising for most spankees.
HOLIDAY SPANKING
This simply involves spanking on a holiday.
A popular Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking variation of Holiday Spanking may involve the spankee being spanked by Santa Clause on Christmas.
HUMILIATION SPANKING
Also known as Humiliation Therapy Spanking.
This means, that in addition to spanking, the spankee will be humiliated in a variety of ways. This may include being required to wear unusual clothing in view of other observers. This more often includes total nudity. This may include being spanked in front of other people. This may include “corner time” with the spankee displaying his/her spanked red bottom.
For additional humiliation, the spankee may be required to take an enema, and hold the water for a considerable amount of time before being allowed to go to the toilet, while standing naked in a corner with spanked red bottom exposed, and while holding the enema bag in one hand and using the other hand to keep the nozzle of the enema hose inserted in the anus. The spanking, and the giving of the enema, may be done in front of other people, for added humiliation. But when it is time for the spankee to use the toilet and clean up, then that should be allowed to be done in private.
ICE SPANKING
This involves applying an ice cube to the bare bottom of the spankee. The spanker holds the ice cube between fingers, while running the ice cube all over the buns of the spankee until it is melted. This ice treatment is alternated with spanking by hand or the use of a spanking instrument. It is recommended that a light spanking be given first, and then apply the first ice cube. Next give a moderate spanking, and then apply the second ice cube. Finally a hard spanking, followed by the final ice cube. A rubber/plastic thong, like worn on a foot at a swimming pool, is the recommended spanking instrument for Ice Spanking.
IMPULSE SPANKING
This kind of spanking does not require a reason for the spanking. It may be given for any reason or no reason at all. It is given on the spur of the moment, and therefore it is not a spanking that is planned in advance. However, spanking partners may agree in advance that Impulse Spanking is acceptable in the relationship. Usually, an Impulse Spanking may be given anywhere –any location –private or public, but there may be an agreement to limit it to private locations. Certainly, an Impulse Spanking may be given anytime, but there may be an agreement to limit it to within certain hours and/or certain days.
An example, is a couple living together, who happen to pass each other while walking through a room of the house, and one may suddenly an unexpectedly give one or more swats on the bottom of the other. Also, it is usually done on whatever the spankee happens to be wearing, or not wearing, at the time of the Impulse Spanking. Usually, for this kind of spanking, time is not taken to pull down pants and position the spankee.
INCENTIVE SPANKING
This is also known as Motivation Therapy Spanking.
The purpose of this kind of spanking is to help a person [the spankee] to reach a particular goal. There are many different kinds of goals.
One example is the use of Incentive Spanking to help a person to quit smoking. This is usually a minimum of one hard swat with a wood paddle applied to the bare bottom for each cigarette smoked in a day, at a certain regular time each day, for all cigarettes smoked in the past 24 hours. If that is not effective enough, then the value of each cigarette may be increased to more swats per cigarette.
Another example has to do with weight loss. For that goal, a specific goal needs to be set, one way or another. A goal may be set to lose 10 pounds in one month, which should not be too difficult. One swat may be given for each pound the spankee fails to lose each day. The spankee should be positioned on the scale, standing, and bent over to look down at the weight number displayed. The spankee should be totally naked while being weighed and then spanked or paddled. For added humiliation, the spankee should be required to remain on the scale, looking at the weight number displayed, feeling the pain of the spanking, with spanked red bottom on display. If the simple Incentive Spanking is not effective enough, then Enema Spanking may be included to help with the weight loss goal.
INSTRUCTION SPANKING
Also known as Teaching Spanking and/or Training Spanking.
This is somewhat different from Demonstration Spanking and Exhibition Spanking. It is mainly teaching people how to give an effective spanking and different kinds of spankings.
This may involve a classroom-like setting, but may be done at any location in any room large enough to accommodate the number of students the teacher will be instructing.
The spanking teacher is usually in the role of dom/top spanker, and may have his/her own regular sub/bottom spankee to demonstrate on. If the students are not going to participate at all, then this is simply Demonstration Spanking rather than Instruction Spanking, or might otherwise be classified as Exhibition Spanking. If the spanking teacher does not have his/her own regular sub/bottom spankee to demonstrate on, then students may be called on to come up to front of the room to submit their bottoms for a demonstration. It might be necessary for the spanking teacher to take the position of sub/bottom spankee in order to test the students to make sure they are doing it correctly and effectively. But in most cases, the students will be paired up to practice on each other. The pairing may include matching dom/top spankers to sub/bottom spankees. It is helpful if more students can function as switches to take turns giving and receiving. It is possible that some of the students might already be couples who will be spanking partners.
Also, with it being a school-like setting, students who act improperly may be given actual punishment spankings.
JUDGEMENT SPANKING
This is a courtroom-like setting and scenario.
It may happen within a Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking scenario, in which no one actually did anything wrong and are simply pretending to have done something wrong. Or, it might relate to actual events. If it is all fantasy, then it is usually just for fun, and the punishments are usually not too severe. If it is for real, then the punishments may be severe, and include brutal caning, paddling, or even whipping.
Judgment Spanking will involve a minimum of three participants: The person being accused, the person making the accusation, and the person in the role of the judge to judge the accusation, and determine the punishment if the accused is found guilty by the judge.
An expanded scenario may include a jury, a prosecutor, a defender, the accused [one or more], the victim [one or more], any witnesses, and also one or more persons who may be instructed to carry out the punishment if the accused is found guilty.
If the accused is found guilty, then the judge may order the punishment to take place immediately and in the courtroom in front of everyone, if it is to be a single one-time punishment. Or the judge might schedule a series of punishments over a long period of time at another location.
See also Avenge Spanking and Revenge Spanking, for scenarios in which an accused has been punished, and then discovered to be totally innocent. In the scenario of Judgment Spanking, the judge might discover the accused to be a victim of false and willful wrong prosecution, in which case the judge may order the responsible person [one or more] to be punished.
MARATHON SPANKING
This may also be referred to as an extended kind of Endurance Spanking. In the scenario of Duel Spanking, two combatants take turns giving each other hard swats usually with a wood paddle and eventually on the bare bottom, until one gives up. That is a kind of Endurance Spanking, but it is two-way. With simple Endurance Spanking, the purpose of the spanking is only to determine how much one can take, for future reference, and the moment that is determined then the spanking is stopped. In the scenario of Marathon Spanking, the usual limits of the spanker and the spankee are exceeded, because the spanking might go on all day long, with hundreds –perhaps thousands –of swats, usually given by hand [gloveless] on the bare bottom. Breaks are allowed for brief cool downs, drinking a beverage, having a snack or small meal, using the restroom, taking a phone call of no one else can answer the phone, and perhaps a few other possibilities.
Marathon Spanking may take place as a contest between two or more couples. For it to be effective and honest, the couples must swap usual spanking partners. It is further useful if there is a nonbiased observer as judge, and perhaps other observers with hand-held counters to count the swats, to determine the average number of swats per minute, for which there may be a minimum allowed.
MASSAGE SPANKING
This is simply the inclusion of a mild to moderate bare bottom spanking by hand with a full body massage.
MEMORY RECOVERY SPANKING
This may also be referred to as Memory Therapy Spanking.
This kind of spanking is used to help people remember things or recovery memories of things that have been forgotten… such as: names, numbers, dates, events, history, descriptions, locations, people, etc… and such as appointments, chores, other activities, remembering to do other things, etc.
This is not intended to be a fun kind of spanking, but should not be a brutal or severe kind of spanking. It may be a variation of Incentive Spanking.
MILD SPANKING
This kind of spanking, whether delivered by hand or with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, only causes mild redness for most spankees.
MODERATE SPANKING
This kind of spanking, whether delivered by hand or with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, only causes moderate redness for most spankees.
MUSIC SPANKING
This is simply the inclusion of music with spanking. One option is to spank to the beat of the music of particular songs that may be considered ideal for spanking scenarios. Another option is to use the music as background music to set the mood and emotional environment for certain spanking scenarios, including Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking. Think dark, haunting, scary, spooky dungeon music.
Music may also be used to help cover up the sounds of a spanking, swats and screams, to avoid unwanted attention by neighbors calling police. On the other hand, you don’t want the music to be so loud that it gets the same unwanted attention. But if it comes to that, then have a horror movie DVD or VHS tape ready to show them, and say the sounds were coming from the movie and you had the volume too high.
PARTY SPANKING
This may include any fun kind of spanking that will happen at a party, with a variety of other activities. Game Spanking is a popular kind of Party Spanking, but not all Game Spanking takes place at parties and so that is why it is a separate listing. Likewise, the variations of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking with costumes.
Note that Group Spanking is different from Party Spanking, because it is more like a meeting, and because it may include more serious kinds of spanking.
PRIVATE SPANKING
This includes any kind of spanking given in private, and limited to just the spanker and the spankee.
PREVENTATIVE MAINTENANCE SPANKING
This kind of spanking is not for punishment, such as after someone has had a behavior problem, but is given in advance to help prevent someone from having a behavior problem. A person might be given a Preventative Maintenance Spanking at the start of a particular day, to help remind that person to be good for the rest of that day. It does not need to be a hard spanking, and it does not need to be given on the bare bottom. What is recommended is a few [3 to 6] moderately hard swats with a wood paddle delivered on a covered bottom, so there is only some redness likely to vanish within a few hours. For more serious cases, a Preventative Maintenance Spanking may be much harder and may be delivered on the bare bottom for longer lasting effects.
PROFESSIONAL SPANKING
This mainly and usually involves experienced doms/tops, who charge money to give spankings, or engage in Teaching Spanking or Demonstration Spanking or Exhibition Spanking.
This sometimes includes experienced subs/bottoms, who charge money for submitting to a spanking.
This does include the realm of people who star in spanking videos.
PUBLIC SPANKING
This is simply any kind of spanking given out in public at a location where just anyone may see it and very likely will.
Spanking at an outdoors location may be within Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking, but does not really qualify as Public Spanking unless it is where people are likely to see it.
This could be referred to as Exhibitionist Spanking, but that might cause some confusion with Exhibition Spanking, which is different.
PUNISHMENT SPANKING
This is obviously the most common kind of spanking.
Punishment Spanking is usually given when one has been caught doing something wrong, and it is just a one-time punishment for that particular wrongdoing.
If the punished person keeps doing the same wrong thing, and Punishment Spanking has failed to get the desired results, then Discipline Spanking may be applied, which is a scheduled series of much harder spankings.
PURIFICATION RITUAL SPANKING
This is an expanded version of Enema Spanking, with body and spirit cleansing aspects, and may be associated with Confession Therapy Spanking. It is not simply a kinky activity of combining the giving of enemas with the giving of spankings. This may be comparable to the spiritual cleansing aspect of the traditional water baptism of religion. A person may feel the need to be cleaned spiritually and physically, inside and out, after having engaged in various activities perceived to be sinful or otherwise wrong, for which the person is feeling some guilt. At some point in the process, perhaps the final step after the enemas and the spankings, the person who has given the enemas and the spankings then washes the person who received the enemas and the spankings, and that may be done in a bath or shower if inside, or other possibilities if outside.
The water enemas given during Purification Ritual Spanking are of low volume, like only about 12oz. The enemas are alternated with moderate to hard spanking by hand or a few light to moderate swats with a paddle. So the series begins with a spanking, followed by an enema, followed by another spanking, and then the person is allowed to release the water into the toilet and get cleaned up. The next series begins with an enema, followed by a spanking, and then the release into the toilet and cleanup. The same series is repeated as many times as desired. After the final release into the toilet and cleanup, then there my be an additional full body cleanup in a bath or shower. If the full body cleanup is done in a shower, then it may include some additional light to moderate spanking by hand on the wet bottom while in the shower.
RESEARCH SPANKING
This may be a kind of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking, during which no real research is being done. It is basically pretend research.
An example includes the taking of the temperature of the spankee with a rectal thermometer. The temperature is taken first. Then there is a spanking on the bare bottom by hand. After that, the rectal temperature is taken again. This continues with alternating the temperature taking with spanking given with various kinds of spanking instruments.
Many other kinds of research scenarios are possible.
REVENGE SPANKING
In the scenario of Revenge Spanking, person A has been wrongfully spanked by Person B, innocence discovered after the spanking has already been given. Person B should have done a better job investigating the alleged misdeed of person A, or have granted person A the benefit of the doubt. Person A then gives person B a Revenge Spanking.
REWARD SPANKING
Some people really like being spanked. For them, it is more like a very stimulating massage than a form of punishment. Therefore, the problem is, some of those people might deliberately act bad in order to get a spanking. Obviously, that defeats the purpose of a Punishment Spanking, and can lead to a misdiagnosed need for Discipline Spanking. This calls for a form of reverse psychology. These people must be told that they will only be spanked when they are good, instead of when they are bad. Thus, spanking becomes a reward for good behavior. Reward Spanking may also be given for reaching certain goals, similar to Incentive Spanking. It may also be given for doing a good job on something. Reward Spanking may be expanded into Erotic Spanking, as an additional reward, if the spankee is sexually turned on by being spanked.
A dominatrix might consider all spankings she gives to her submissives to be a reward, or should be viewed as a reward. She might warn them that punishment for bad behavior will be much more severe than a simple spanking. She might spank by hand as a reward, and use a cane or whip for punishment. Something like that might take place within a scenario in which she is training her submissives on how to effectively and properly lick her pussy until she is fully satisfied with a sexual climax.
ROMANCE SPANKING
This may also be referred to as Love Spanking.
This is for couples involved in a romantic relationship. It is ideal for couples who are switches, who take turns spanking each other, but can work just as well for couples of whom one is dom and one is sub. This is somewhat similar to Reward Spanking, in that it makes use of a kind of reverse psychology. The quality of the spanking, and how hard it is, without causing unnecessary damage or any permanent scaring, represents how much the couple love each other. The spankee may show love by how much he/she can take and how hard. The spanker shows love by how much he/she can give and how hard it can be given. It may be similar to Endurance Spanking and/or Marathon Spanking.
SAFE SPANKING
Some spankees have really tough buns, able to take long hard spankings without showing hardly any redness. Some spankers have really sensitive hands, which will turn bright red after giving a spanking of only a few swats. So in this scenario, it looks more like the spankee has been using his/her butt to spank the hand of the spanker! The spanker is hurting more than the spankee! In that case, it is best for the spanker to practice Safe Spanking by wearing tight leather gloves, or by using a spanking instrument –such as a paddle –for all spankings.
SERIOUS SPANKING
This includes what may be classified as serious kinds of spanking, such as Discipline Spanking, Incentive Spanking, and Punishment Spanking, as three examples.
SEVERE SPANKING
This kind of spanking, whether delivered by hand or with a spanking instrument, and whether delivered on a bare bottom or clothed bottom, causes severe redness with some bruising for most spankees.
SPORTS SPANKING
This is simply the inclusion of spanking with a sport.
Table tennis, ping-pong, is considered to be a sport by some people, just a game by other people. It is ideal as a kind of Sports Spanking, because it provides the ideal spanking instrument, being the ping-pong paddle.
Regular tennis is also good for Sports Spanking. Although the tennis racquet will not likely be used as a spanking instrument, the use of the tennis racquet during the game is ideal for getting the “spanking arm” in good strong condition for giving an effective spanking with whatever instrument is used.
Other kinds of sports may include spanking. Wrestling is especially ideal, and that fits in well with what is referred to as Gladiator Spanking. Some women, who engage in mud wrestling, have been known to spank each other during the wrestling.
SUBMISSIVE SPANKING
This is the kind of spanking a sub/bottom usually engages in. A submissive may say that he/she is only interested in submissive spanking, for which the sub/bottom receives the spankings.
Usually, a sub/bottom never gives spankings. However, there may be rare exceptions. One exception is if the dom/top of the sub/bottom orders him/her to give a spanking. Another exception is if the sub/bottom agrees to participate in a form of Game Spanking, which will require him/her to give some spankings. Even so, some games, like card games, can be modified to accommodate submissives. For example, the dealer may be the only dom/top, and all players are subs/bottoms, which mans the dealer will be giving all of the spankings, and the last player to be spanked on the bare bottom [by playing a card game similar to strip poker] is the winner.
SWITCH SPANKING
This is any kind of spanking engaged in by spanking partners, who are switches. That means they will take turns spanking each other.
Most switches will take turns spanking with the same spanking partner. However, there are some people, who consider themselves to be switches, but do no switch with the same partner. Instead, they have two spanking partners, one being a dom for the switch to receive spankings from, and the other being a sub for the switch to give spankings to.
TICKLE SPANKING
This is simply the inclusion of spanking with tickling, but of course it requires a spankee who is ticklish. Alternating spanking and tickling can be very stimulating.
TOUGHEN-UP SPANKING
The purpose of this kind of spanking is to help an individual become physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually tougher. It is somewhat similar to Endurance Spanking and/or Marathon Spanking. It is intended to help an individual to properly receive harder spankings, by slowly building up the ability to take a harder spanking. It is like weight lifting, in which one starts out lifting a low weight, and gradually is able to lift higher weight. Likewise, one may start out with Mild Spanking, and gradually progress to Hard Spanking.
WARM-UP SPANKING
This is simply a light spanking, usually by hand, usually on a clothed bottom, before the “real” spanking begins. The use of a Warm-Up Spanking can help to enhance the rest of the spanking to follow.
WET SPANKING
Scenario One Example, as an actual scenario, or as a form of Fantasy Role-Playing Spanking: A naughty girl has been making too much noise and causing trouble while swimming in a swimming pool, and breaking some rules. She is ordered out of the pool by the lifeguard, who then punishes her by giving her a spanking on the bottom of her wet swimsuit.
Scenario Two Example, as a level in a variation of Game Spanking with playing cards: Player A, a woman, draws the three of hearts, and player B draws the five of diamonds. High card spanks low card, so player B spanks player A, five swats. The suite of diamonds representing the leather belt spanking instrument, so the five swats are given with the leather belt. This is the first round, so the spanking is given with player A wearing blue jeans. Player A loses the second round, two of clubs under ten of spades, and is then given ten swats with a ping-pong paddle, represented by the suite of spades, applied to her panties with blue jeans off. Player A loses the third round, nine of hearts under queen of hearts, with the queen having a value of twelve [jack being eleven and king being thirteen], hearts representing the hand. But for the third loss, the back of her panties are sprayed with water from a spray bottle, until they are soaking wet, but not necessarily dripping wet. She is then spanked by hand with her wet panties on, which is the Wet Spanking in this scenario. There is an unusual complication in the next round, when she draws the joker, because drawing the joker results in her being given a water enema [not necessarily associated with a Wet Spanking]. After releasing the enema water in the toilet and getting cleaned up, she returns to the game for her final round, which she also loses. She has drawn the six of spades under the ace of clubs. With aces high, above the king’s value of thirteen, that means she will be given fourteen swats, which will be given with a hairbrush as represented by the suite of clubs. The last player to be spanked on the bare bottom is the winner of this game.
There are other kinds of Wet Spanking scenarios and variations, which may be included with other kinds of spanking. Review the Spanking Glossary, and apply where desired.
