TYPES OF ADULT SPANKINGS
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There are six types of adult spankings :
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Spankings generally involve two people , sometimes more as in an ADULT SCHOOL or PARTY situation . Self spanking is an alternative when a spanking partner is not available ( see DIY PAGE ) .
Sexual activity may be involved , but many purists prefer to abstain . This can be a major factor in getting consent from " real life " partners to " play " with others .
Spankings may be " clinical " in their style , as in most punishment spankings , with little emotion being shown or " non clinical " with something of a drama taking place . Or anything in between .
Adult THERAPEUTIC SPANKINGS will be of one of the above types ( maybe stretching the point in the case of OPPORTUNISTIC and CYBER spankings ) .
The sex of the participants is not a factor in considering these types of spankings .
These are the most common type of spankings between consenting adults . They are done for the enjoyment of one , and preferably both parties , even though they may be intense and painful at the time . A range of IMPLEMENTS and POSITIONS maybe used in varying LOCATIONS to achieve the desired LEVEL of spanking . The warm glow produced deep within the bottom is satisfying , as is the marking of the bottom ( for some ) . A POWER EXCHANGE takes place between the participants which can be as important to them as the physical spanking . A spiritual element may be present where the recipient and / or the giver achieves an emotional release .
Many take their spanking activity very seriously and would object to the term " play " , so maybe " normal " would be better to use for these spankings . The idea of play lightens the activity as does the use of humour .
Role playing can be used and detailed planning may be involved . Sometimes the spanker / spankee role is reversed during the " session " .
Many of the factors mentioned here apply to all forms of adult spanking .
Maybe kinky , but nice !
Erotic spankings can be the best of all , because of the way in which pleasure and pain is mixed with a degree of erotic stimulation . They are a variation of the " Play " spankings mentioned above .
An erotic spanking is best planned ahead so the participants can be rested , feel relaxed and able to " play " for a long period without interruption . Baths , showers , champagne , candles , HONEY BUN CREAM and a little soul food all have their place , along with background MUSIC . This is a great way to spend a Sunday afternoon exploring your spanking interest .
Needless to say erotic spankings are bare bottom spankings and the caresses of the bottom often extend up the back and down between the thighs . This should be very sensual experience , alternating between hard and soft , light and heavy , hot and cold etc ( " Leather and Lace " ) .
SWITCHING SPANKING ROLES is common and helps in getting inside the mind , body and spirit of your spanking partner . Your understanding of self and feelings about spanking likewise increase .
Nu-West/Leda have some passable erotic spanking videos .
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A Punishment spanking is , as the words say , a punishment and a very predictable event . There is a high degree of certainty about what is going to happen . It is something to be avoided , even if the recipient normally enjoys being spanked .
The spanking may start with a period of waiting " go to the bedroom " , " I am going to spank you when I get home " etc . A verbal dressing down may be given , some can even make the recipient cry before the spanking starts . A ritual method , implement and positioning may be used , making the recipient wish that they would just get on with the spanking . There is no warm up and the spanking starts at full force , generally on the bare bottom . Tears , promises to be good , pleas to stop and marks should have no effect , you are spanked until the spanker is satisfied with the punishment . The spanking may not be with your consent .
A period of bare bottom " Corner Time " may follow , if you touch or rub you are spanked again . Another lecture may be given . These spankings should be memorable , even years later . True Punishment spankings , as outlined here , are not very common in domestic settings .
It is a good policy to let the matter which led to the spanking drop when the spanking is finished . See SPENCER PLAN , SPANKOZ PLAN and Domestic Discipline in Relationships .
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Opportunistic spankings occur spontaneously as a " target " ( " Target of Opportunity " , in military parlance ) appears and " The Moment is Seized " . They are generally " One Hit Wonders " . ( See the AVRIL LAVINE page for an example . ) There is a " Thrill of the Chase " aspect to these spankings and an element of risk taking .
These spankings may increase in intensity to become normal ( play , punishment or erotic ) spankings . They can be a method of SPANKING PROSPECTING , done to test a recipients reaction .
These are mostly prearranged and normally publicity stunts . Sometimes they are done to have some fun by surprising onlookers . See the SANDRA HILDER page for another example .
These can be a good way to explore an interest in spanking with minimal risk . It is not a good idea to use the office computer system , however . Various roles and personalities can be assumed for a little variety . A separate spanking only Email address is a good idea , as is reading 10 Tips for Online Dating Safety . If using a telephone , make sure that your caller ID is off .
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